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Three Year Flash | Growing Bigger Faster

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“This one is going to really interesting to watch . . . hmmmm . . . . ”

When I made the appointment we had a choice, but I picked the doctor in the practice we like best. Well, we like them all, but we like this one best because he kind of wanders off and philosophizes while he’s with us. Conversations become streams from his consciousness and wander off into places like where we’ll be in a year or two or three.  In this case, we were sitting in an exam room three years from now and he had just measured our youngest son.

“ . . . about six feet five inches.”

Looking eye to eye with our “baby,” who is now five feet seven inches, I was struck by what it would be like to be walking down the street – or anywhere – three years from now with two young men who could, and probably should be, playing basketball. His older brother will grow to top six feet three or four inches.

And so, I came back from their annual physical not to write about BlogHer [as I fully intended], but to write about fast growth. Instead, I found myself updating my speaker contract. Sometimes projects like this grab me uncontrollably and force me to deal with them right now. The fast growth track for my business is in speaking and reaching groups.

Flash back three years to 2006: I didn’t know anything about the speaker training program I would take that fall. I didn’t know how to blog for readers. I canceled a major client contract so “I could go out and find my people and my place in the world.” I think I mentioned something about my “people” looking like spotted cows drinking cappuccinos.

I’d never heard of BlogHer. I didn’t have many email subscribers.

What did I have? Curiosity, a driving need to discover and, of course, three much shorter children.

Today, I found out how tall my boys will be – I’ll be looking up at them. Will they be looking up at me?

Where could I, personally, be in three years? How big and how fast could my business grow? I wondered today.

How about you? Where will you be in three years? Who will be looking up at you? Why?

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image: “Okay Sway Me” by Barbara Rozgonyi, captured on a photo walk in Burlingame, California on March 8, 2009

BlogHer09 Keynotes: Traditional Media Chops Meet a New Media Calling

Notes from the BlogHer09 keynote, lightly edited. Please feel free to comment and add your insights.

Moderator: Lisa Stone, co-founder of BlogHer

Panelists: Tina Brown, The Daily Beast, Donna Byrd, The Root and Ilene Chaiken, The L Word

Tina

Print is a locked in medium. She loves online because she can find new quickly find new voices

Donna

Asked to talk about the arrest of www.theroot.com’s editor for attempting to break into his own home after coming home from a trip from China and finding he was locked out of his own home. The story sparked a debate across the country about racial profiling. On the site, they tried to present both sides of the story. They’re not blocking very many comments. President Obama left a comment.

Lisa

What opportunities with social media do you have to address the story – what does social media change for you?

Donna

In 2001, blackamericaweb – got comments, but still rather slow. People are really using social media to spread stories and engage people in your site.

Ilene

There are a host of shows starting to represent gay men. It’s not about a belief in the spending power of the demographics, a great deal of research shows there’s lots of spending power out there. Her next step: continue to try in every possible way to do more TV shows. Digital is the future of how LBGT stories will be told. How do we get beyond the boxes and rectangles – what different business models are your trying?

Tina

Going for the integrated advertising, looking for upper echelon, quality advertisers, creating modules themselves that are interesting to look at. Being very collaborative with advertisers, now over 2M uniques in a short space of time. Will start to see the new ads mostly in the first quarter of next year, working to be there when budgets free up, which is happening now. Other ways to grow traffic are important, build 3 or 4 revenue streams around your brand: TV, events, Video, conferences with sponsorship – all ways to make money. Really only a stopgap in next 2-3 years, everything is coming online. Frankly, it is coming away from print to online. As of next year, 50% of advertisers said we’re coming out of print and going online. Finding all kinds of makeshift ways to keep going as the cultural shift is happening, it’s coming this way.

Donna

Vibe magazine is shutting down, African American mag shut down, advertisers still looking for ways to reach niche audiences, places that can provide a true relationship with their readers. In 2001, they created ads for their advertisers, just a display ad online, no true interaction. Today, mini-ads looking at PPC, conversion, much more exciting and challenging world in that you really have to be able to prove that you have an understanding of your audience and you have a relationship with them. Readers wind up benefiting from the relationship that you have.

Lisa

Extremely time-intensive and if you’re off and there isn’t that match with that community, doesn’t work. Hot button in blog community: product placement. FTC addressing this summer. How do you work with product placement?

Ilene

Product placement is very controversial in TV and film, more openly acknowledged now than it was. In film and pay cable, they made some deals. Mercedes-Benz made some investment in capital. Audience is uneasy unless it’s done artfully and seamlessly. As we move online, we’re looking more at partnerships.

LGBT consumer is more loyal and more more inclined to support advertisers that support them and will invest in their stories. The first year of The L Word – they couldn’t find a single company to step up and finally Subaru stepped up as the first company to step into the LGBT space.

Donna

We’re looking at more of an affiliate, not product placement, in the context of what they’re producing. For example the top 10 list of hot gadgets – looking at it from an editorial standpoint.

Lisa

Do you accept payment?

Ilene

Only if we acknowledge that it’s advertorial.

Tina

One highlight that says sponsored. The rest of the layout is like other pages, but it is clearly labeled. You can create an environment that’s subtle, but creative. Media audiences are more sophisticated, the more you can find a way to develop a template and preserve the editorial so it works for the advertiser and the readers the better.

Questions

Loyal audience of mom entrepreneurs – is there a future for niche sites or will be consolidated. Katherine Lewis, Current Mom, group blog for entrepreneurial mothers.

Donna

Moved into an era of citizen journalism, there are advertisers that are hungry for audiences, the challenge is to be able to package to be appealing. If you have a one on one relationship with their customers, get together with blogs similar to yours, if you advertise in their space, likelihood is much greater that they’ll reach the people more closely.

Liza Berry Kessler – lizaishere.com, Is BlogHer a model for other niche communities to come with an aggregating way to reach advertisers?

Tina

The future: small blogs create their own constellations to build a substantial niche, groups of 20 or 30 blogs together with aligned cultural sensibility.

Donna

The key is to differentiate yourself. You have to be clear about what you bring that’s different from other sites: moms between 25-45. Come in as a collective, make sure everyone in your group has a like-minded group.

Ilene

The challenge is figuring out where our alliances are: men, women, sexual orientation?

Lisa

There is no question about the importance of marketing and sales. There is an evolution to the growing into a marketing and sales-worthy community. She’s impressed with how much time the panelists have spent with the BlogHer community this week.

Tina

She’s finding women here who have stories, exciting to be hear from them.

Lisa

Marketing is the next step for anyone who wants to tell their story.

Question from hopefulparents.com Why be so careful with product placement and editorial? If you’re doing editorial why are you saying this product is sponsored by a company?

Lisa

The FTC is concerned about making sure there is disclosure and is taking the blogosphere into what TV and print has been held to. Is there something that combining that could be negatively perceived? Women control 83% of household income.

Ilene

It’s about transparency

Brenda – women’s music, marketing and consulting for LGBT community.

Lisa

Core to The L Word was sexuality – talking about what’s not safe for work. Is that a legitimate way to drive traffic or is it a cheat?

Ilene

IT’s a choice and personal, certainly not a cheat, anybody who’s looking for anything should be able to find anything. The reason for the show to exist was to tell stories about sexuality and then everything around it.

Tina

There’s no question that sexy stuff does very well. In The Daily Beast it has to have a witty idea, has to be throwing light on the culture. Example: women finding a sugar daddy in this economy, a woman wrote about it, the sugar daddy told his side, a trend in this economy, story did very well. Stuff about sexuality in the news, keys: good idea, good writer, value – 10 women over 50 who look fabulous in a swimsuit.

Donna

One top story – picture is a story of Serena’s backside. Sex sells there’s no doubt about it. The Root is trying to make sure that they’re incorporating stories about news and culture, try not to go just for sexy things to get traffic.

Tina

One of the things that’s been exciting about The Daily Beast is that politics does extremely well. You can actually tap a vein of discourse.

Ilene

Draw a distinction between sex to sell anything and telling stories about sexuality

Question from Theresa of ChicagoNow.com, which pairs bloggers and then reverse publishes as an online community. How do mainstream media companies integrate what bloggers do best?

Tina

Mainstream media has a tough time answering that question, It’s very very difficult. Easier to grow a site away from mainstream media in a sense. The whole question of who’s a journalist and who’s a blogger is getting more blurred. Bloggers have a distinct voice, a lot of journalists are hiding behind facts. Some journalists adapt really to the web. It’s very interesting to watch the new mind meld. Soon there won’t be a distinction.

Question- content side of things – how do you deal with conflicts with what the community wants versus what youwant to write about? How does audience react to it?

Ilene

Very different approach to television versus an online community. When she first started doing The L Word, she made the mistake of not considering the audience. She realized there was an interesting conversation going on around her. She took it all in and admits to having been moved by fan community.

Lisa – who killed Jenny?

Ilene

Will be addressed in The L Word movie – now in process.

Donna

Be clear in terms of voice. Listen to readers on a regular basis. The Root readers want more lifestyle content – how do they do it in a way that still feels like The Root?

Tina

Pays a great deal of attention to comments. She always reads them and listens to them. The Daily Beast readers are a smart and informed audience, they like some intellectual rhythm.

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PR and Blogging as an Authority Platform | DIYSWAYSOHO

WordCamp ChicagoI’m in lovely Madison, Wisconsin presenting to DIYSWAYSOHO.

Links to my presentation for my audience and my readers, include . . .

Blogging for Business Book

PR P-R-I-M-E-R – also gets you a subscription to Wired PR Works

Social Media for Entrepreneurs Workshop Guide

Social Media Presentation Guide with Get Started Steps

Image Maker PR: 20 Ways to Look Good When You Say Cheese

Going anywhere near anyone who’s active on the Internet?

Then, be ready to have your picture taken with a cell phone, a digital camera or who knows? Maybe even a watch or a shoe.

When you hear someone say: "I’m going to put this up on Facebook!" either duck and run or stand up and pose boldly.

Last June, I wrote one of my most popular posts. Called Picture Perfect PR: Are You Camera Ready?

At the time, I wrote it to research what it takes to look good in pictures. With at least six events coming up in the next week, I decided to revisit the post and brush up on the tips and include a video featuring Carson Kressley from his Looking Good in Pictures Series. [I’m looking forward to meeting Carson at BlogHer!]

Here you go . . .

20 Ways to Be Picture Perfect and Camera Ready

1. Hire an image consultant who can tell you how you can look your best. At a recent conference, I ran into someone who did just that. I almost didn’t recognize Alex. His new image positioned him as a savvy, successful business owner. Where was Alex, the guy with the ponytail who looked like a freelance musician?

2. Dress up a notch and wear your most flattering clothes. Black is not always the answer. Need to look slim and sleek?

3. Take a few practice pictures. Take a test shot of you in your outfit before you go out the door. Looking in the mirror doesn’t capture the shadows and imperfections like a flash does.

4. Pose like a celebrity and act famous! Just kidding about acting famous, but if you have people lining up to take your picture, you will be!

5. Be seen with your crowd. Going with a collaborative colleague? Make sure you’re in pictures together.

6. Request that images be focused on smiling faces. Set your camera to zoom in from the spot where your picture will be taken.

7. Women, wear more makeup and look above, not into the lens.

8. Ask to see images and request that the ones you don’t like not be used in other’s cameras. A cheery, “Let’s see how it turned out!” is all it takes to get a preview. This may be tricky or impossible, especially if you’re at an event where everyone is taking pictures.

9. Stick with what works: colors, clothes, poses.

10. Put your best face forward; think happy thoughts.

11. Scout out photo opp spots before everyone arrives. Then start the snapping trend.

12. Wear interesting jewelry. I won’t say who, but a major magazine sent me a direct message on twitter asking about a cat pin I was wearing in my profile photo.

13. Look at what other people in the photo are doing. If they’re hamming it up, you should, too.

14. Search for good lighting and take a few test shots with and without flash to see how they turn out.

15. Request a waist up or a close up if you’d rather focus on your most flattering features.

16. Promote your business, a cause or your club with clothing that has a logo.

17. Set the drinks and the food down for a hands-free look.

18. Watch Carson’s video on how to look good in party pics – if you’ll be out on the town.

19. Check your hair and makeup before you start showing up in viewfinders.

20. What would you add?

How do you do it all? Balancing Business and Life for Entrepreneurs

boys-in-the-woods That’s the question I got from another mom – also with three kids and also the owner of a creative agency.

We know each well other from in-town connection points, but we hadn’t “met” on the internet until a few weeks ago.

She wanted to know how I’d been able to accomplish so much online.

Let me stop right here and tell you: this is not a self-promotion post. [I will share the same “secret” with you: many, many small actions add up over time, in my case going all the way back 1996.]

Rather, it’s kind of a self-reflection on making sacrifices/tradeoffs and setting priorities in life – and in business.

And, it’s also a kind of apology to my readers. I didn’t realize I had taken so much time off from regular posting until I looked at my LinkedIn profile and saw “last post 8 days ago” a few days back and resolved to write all the posts that are stacked up right them, right there.

But, I didn’t write a single one.

Instead, I directed my attention to serving clients, writing presentations, answering questions, promoting SMC Chicago’s July event, uploading images and getting two sons ready to take off on their big summer adventures. It’s the last assignment that got the least amount of attention and time.

On Friday, we were shopping up until the very last minute for work gear, socks, swim trunks [he went with the one with the Cubs logo, which means his sister will not be seen with him on the beach], snacks, toiletries [he loves this word] and magazines. It’s the kind of trip I know by heart: this is his third mission trip and our fifth year sending kids off. But, this time it had to get tucked into the last in line spot. Too many deadlines kept me from being able to break away.

I had to convince my son that the grocery store was where we would consolidate purchases. He wanted to go to Walgreens and Trader Joe’s because that was his tradition. There wasn’t enough time for that. As I waited at the checkout line for all of the groceries to go through, he wandered away.

“How’s your day going?” the bagger asked. At first I didn’t hear her. So she asked again.

“Okay,” I said as I watched the collection of toiletries, snack, magazines, Foster Grants and bandanas roll by. “My son leaves for a mission trip tomorrow,” I said.

At that point, my 6’ 3” tall son came back to stand beside me. When he walked up, the checker and the bagger asked about his trip. Hearing him share his excitement and commitment to serving, with two strangers, made me realize that no matter how much time we had to get ready, this was the moment that brought us together.

Today, his mission work starts and tomorrow our youngest son gets home from a singing tour in England. 

Back to the question: How do you do it all?

I might ask the same question of many of my friends.

Being able to balance creativity, work, family, community, volunteer work, free time and everything else in life requires a delicate and daily balancing act. Even so, here are . . . 

12 Ways to Do it All: Balancing Business, Life and Branding for Entrepreneurs

1. Change “Doing it All” to “Doing What’s Important”

2. Dedicate time only to what really matters

3. Look for magic in the moment, not so much the epic adventure

4. Talk to people you love and honor your relationship

5. Make time for people you like and let them know you like them

6. Stay close to home and focus on what you know

7. Invest in existing relationships first before you go out and look for new ones

8. Tell people why and how they fit into your life and understand how you fit into theirs

9. Aim high and follow leaders who have success paths you’d like to follow

10. Stay in touch and stay committed

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How about you – how do you do it all do what’s most important? 

Image: two brothers, Morton Arboretum, Mother’s Day 2009